April 16, 2010

‘Pasta with the Pastor’: New Albany Deanery young adults enjoy sharing faith and food

Young adults from New Albany Deanery parishes pray with Father Eric Augenstein, center, the pastor of Our Lady of Perpetual Help Parish in New Albany, during a “Pasta with the Pastor” gathering on March 26 at the parish rectory. He is 32. (Photo by Mary Ann Wyand)

Young adults from New Albany Deanery parishes pray with Father Eric Augenstein, center, the pastor of Our Lady of Perpetual Help Parish in New Albany, during a “Pasta with the Pastor” gathering on March 26 at the parish rectory. He is 32. (Photo by Mary Ann Wyand)

By Mary Ann Wyand

NEW ALBANY—Steaming bowls of pasta, antipasto salad, fresh fruit, faith-sharing and laughter were the ingredients for an inspirational and entertaining young adult gathering on a Lenten Friday in March at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Parish in the New Albany Deanery.

“Pasta with the Pastor”—a young adult ministry coordinated by the New Albany Deanery Catholic Youth Ministries and hosted in March by Father Eric Augenstein—blends religious education and evangelization with friendship, social time and tasty recipes at a parish rectory.

The menu on March 26 featured Pasta Santa Caterina, in honor of St. Catherine of Alexandria, and rigatoni in a cream sauce from the Cooking with the Saints cookbook published by Ignatius Press.

Wearing a black apron as he stirred boiling pasta and simmering tomato sauce on the stove, Father Augenstein said he enjoyed hosting “Fellowship with Father”—an evening of hospitality, desserts and coffee—with groups of 12 parishioners at the rectory during his first year as their administrator in 2007.

It was a great way to get to know the people in the parish, he said, before his appointment as their pastor in 2008.

Sharing faith, food and fellowship was also the inspiration for this new young adult ministry with the priests serving at New Albany Deanery parishes.

This informal ministry encourages young adults to stay active in their Catholic faith, and provides opportunities for them to get to know parish priests.

“Msgr. Paul Koetter is doing something very similar at Holy Spirit Parish in Indianapolis this year,” Father Augenstein said. “He is going out to parishioners’ homes and meeting with small groups of people to get to know them in informal settings.”

While the young adults dined on pasta, their conversations ranged from current events and popular culture to sports and news about friends.

It was a laid-back meal for the busy young adults, and a welcome chance to relax with their Catholic peers.

After the dishes were washed, they pulled chairs together in a circle and discussed “Steal Away—Time to Just Be,” the New Albany Deanery Young Adult Conference on March 6 at St. Augustine Parish in Jeffersonville.

“I liked the concept of drawing young adults from parishes in the deanery,” Katelyn Walker said, “and coming together because you love your faith and want some enriching time. Everybody is busy. It’s great when you can step aside and take time to reflect on your faith.”

Walker serves Our Lady of Perpetual Help Parish as the director of music.

“It’s a great honor and privilege to be able to work in a parish, but that means your faith is a part of your job,” she said. “You need to take extra steps to find time to do something that nourishes your spiritual life personally.”

A conference workshop on Lectio Divina was inspiring, Walker said, and now she also prays with Scripture.

Nationally known keynote speaker and vocalist ValLimar Jansen was a dynamic conference presenter, Michelle Hoffman said, whose presentation will enhance her own duties as the coordinator of youth and young adult ministry at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Parish.

“She’s a phenomenal person,” Hoffman said. “She’s very expressive [in] her music. … The conference was nice. I was able to get in my relax mode. One of my favorite sayings is, ‘You have to have your cup filled and use your excess to do ministry.’ ”

Our Lady of Perpetual Help parishioner Ryan Ramsey works at an area funeral home.

“The conference was a nice break and helped me get more out of my Lenten journey,” Ramsey said. “Val was engaging and energetic. … I go to Mass every weekend. This was a great add-on, a time away with God, like a mini-vacation.”

Several of the young adults were married in recent years, and their conversation turned to ways to keep God at the center of the sacrament of marriage.

St. Paul parishioners Adam and Brittany Naville of Sellersburg said they recently presented a talk on Catholic marriage to high school students at Mount St. Francis Retreat Center.

“I’m a lot closer to my faith in God than I ever was before we were married,” Adam Naville said. “I think we’ve gotten stronger in our faith because we challenge each other. We make a point to eat dinner together every night, and we always make sure we pray together and go to Mass. That’s an important part of our lives.”

During their presentation, Brittany Naville said she discussed how “God still loves us even in our worst moments,” and that spouses must love each other like God’s unconditional love for us.

Another “Pasta with the Pastor” discussion focused on the challenges of being a single, young adult Catholic.

Julianna Horton, who joined the Church three years ago, ministers as the director of music and liturgy at Immaculate Conception Parish in LaGrange, Ky.

“I felt like I had been searching for truth my whole life,” Horton said. “I finally found it in the Eucharist. I can’t imagine going to Church anywhere else.”

Popular culture is often negative and cynical, the young adults agreed, but faith counteracts the negativity.

“This world is very secular,” Our Lady of Perpetual Help parishioner Jonathan Ernstberger said. “Being Catholic makes me realize that my faith is the only anchor that I have in this life.”

Jeff Jenkins, the associate director of youth ministries for the New Albany Deanery, said making time for young adult ministry activities with his wife, Cherisse, and peers helps him in his other ministries.

“The nice part about this ministry is that I belong to this peer group,” Jenkins said. “These are people that are journeying in very similar situations to me.”

As a young priest, Father Augenstein said, “being able to be with and minister with young adults is an important part of my parish ministry. … It’s refreshing. But more important for me is seeing young adults active in the Church. I enjoy being able to look out during Mass and see young adults in the congregation, and also to see them active in lay ministry roles in the parishes.” †

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