January 11, 2008

Religious Vocations Supplement

Little Sister of the Poor enjoys serving God and the elderly

Sister Margaret Banar, a member of the international Little Sisters of the Poor order, looks at photographs with St. Augustine Home for the Aged resident Beatrice Spurgeon of Indianapolis. Sister Margaret said her habit “opens doors” that otherwise would not be accessible in her ministry. (Photo by Mary Ann Wyand)

Sister Margaret Banar, a member of the international Little Sisters of the Poor order, looks at photographs with St. Augustine Home for the Aged resident Beatrice Spurgeon of Indianapolis. Sister Margaret said her habit “opens doors” that otherwise would not be accessible in her ministry. (Photo by Mary Ann Wyand)

By Mary Ann Wyand

Beatrice Spurgeon’s face lit up with joy as she showed family pictures to Sister Margaret Banar on Dec. 22 at the St. Augustine Home for the Aged in Indianapolis.

The 94-year-old resident moved to the St. Augustine Home in 2003 and enjoys visiting with the Little Sisters of the Poor, who are now part of her extended family.

The residents, happy family atmosphere and daily Mass at the home are among the reasons that Sister Margaret loves her ministry as a member of the international women’s religious order dedicated to serving the elderly poor.

“Caring for the elderly is a very rewarding ministry,” Sister Margaret said on Dec. 22. “We prepare the residents for heaven. We prepare them to meet their Maker, and it’s a great grace to do that.”

She said the residents, staff members, volunteers, benefactors, friends and relatives of the residents all contribute to the family atmosphere at the home.

“We are extremely grateful to all the people who support our ministry,” Sister Margaret said. “Without their support—whether it’s financial, volunteer or prayers—we could not fulfill our mission as Little Sisters of the Poor. We’re a team and we all need one another. That’s how our foundress, Blessed Jeanne Jugan, wanted it to be—a family where the sisters are dedicated to caring for the elderly.”

Sister Margaret completed coursework as a licensed practical nurse, earned a bachelor’s degree in special studies in health care, and is licensed as a nursing home administrator in Indiana and several other states. She served as the superior of the Little Sisters home in Pittsburgh for nine years during the 1990s.

In Indianapolis, she helps Sister Judith Meredith, the superior, with a variety of responsibilities at the 40-year-old home located at 2345 W. 86th St. The sisters currently serve 95 elderly residents who live in apartments, assisted living or the infirmary at the immaculately kept home.

Sister Margaret’s current ministry title is “begging sister” or “collections sister,” which encompasses public relations and development efforts as well as weekday outings in the sisters’ “begging van.”

She visits Indianapolis-area distribution warehouses, businesses and trucking companies to ask them to support the Little Sisters’ ministry by donating food, money and other supplies. She also discusses the sisters’ mission during Mass appeals at parishes in the Archdiocese of Indianapolis and Diocese of Lafayette.

“My job is to keep in touch with people in the business world … to make our ministry known and make it possible for them to be part of our mission,” she said. “As I tell people during church collections, not everybody can be a Little Sister of the Poor, but by their donations or volunteer work they can be a part of the team—God’s team—with the Little Sisters.”

The congregation was founded by Blessed Jeanne Jugan in 1839 in St. Servan, France. The Little Sisters operate 32 homes in the U.S. and 205 homes in 31 countries throughout the world.

Every few years, each sister receives a new assignment, she said, and she has gotten to know sisters and residents at many homes throughout the U.S.

“That’s a grace,” she said of each ministry assignment, “because it’s abandonment to God’s Providence.”

When Hurricane Katrina decimated the Gulf Coast in August 2005, the mother provincial in Baltimore asked her and several sisters from other homes to help care for displaced residents of their New Orleans home who were evacuated to safe quarters at a nursing home in Baton Rouge, La., hours before the storm. She served in Louisiana for about three weeks.

The Little Sisters have a great devotion to God, Jesus, Mary and St. Joseph, who is their patron saint and special intercessor for prayer requests. They trust that God will provide for the residents’ needs each day, and do not have endowments.

A native of Detroit and the second oldest of five siblings, Sister Margaret felt called to religious life while attending the former Rosary High School and volunteering at the Little Sisters’ home there. She enjoyed helping the elderly.

“I think the roots of my vocation came early in my life,” Sister Margaret said. “I always kind of thought I felt called to religious life or some other dedicated life of service. I always felt—although I have a great respect for marriage and children—that my heart was larger than to have just a family with several children. I felt that I had a universal love for many people. So that and my love for God were probably the seeds of my vocation.”

After graduating from high school, she joined the Little Sisters of the Poor more than 30 years ago and was a postulant then a novice for two years before deciding to discern her future. She worked at a hospital for a year as a licensed practical nurse before rejoining the order.

“I still had that feeling of a calling from God,” she recalled, “and I didn’t want to spend a lot of time out of the convent if that’s where God wanted me to be.”

A religious vocation is a calling from God, she said, but it is difficult for people to hear God’s call today because of all the noise and distractions of popular culture.

“To hear this call from God, you have to listen,” Sister Margaret said. “I think today it’s very difficult for young or middle-aged persons to listen to God because of the noise and constant interruptions in our culture and the fear of being in silence. I think many people today turn the radio or TV on the minute they get home—even if it’s just for company—so it’s very difficult for God to talk to you if you’re always listening to other things. I think that might be a deterrent to a person really thinking about, ‘Is God calling me to a dedicated life?’

“I think faith is an atmosphere you have to live in every day,” she said. “It’s trusting in God. I think one of the most important things about my life as a Little Sister of the Poor, as a religious, is the witness value. My habit is a sign, a symbol, a witness, that I have dedicated my life to serving God and people.” †

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