Discernment
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Specific Discernment Programs offered by the Archdiocese
These programs are designed to help you discern God's call for you, whatever that might be!
The discernment of a call to priesthood or religious life is not an easy process, but it is often made easier when sharing it with someone you trust. As the Vocations Director for the archdiocese, I am more than happy to explore your vocation with you. Contact me anytime to set up an appointment that is convenient for you.
How to make your life choice!
Here are four steps to use to help you find your direction.
- Pray for God's guidance. Spend time in quiet just getting to know God. Take an in-depth look at yourself. What are your gifts? Where do you find satisfaction in life? What brings you peace and joy? Talk it over with others. Seek direction from your pastor, priest, parents, or spiritual director. God speaks through others when calling us to our vocation.
- Above all, trust yourself and God. God always leads to what is best for you.
Signs of the Priestly Vocation
God rarely calls people to service through a loud, booming voice or with angels sent from Heaven, but most often guides us with a whisper or a small nudge. Understanding that whisper (the process called discernment) can be difficult at times. Do you feel like something is missing in your life? If so, that could be God calling you to be a priest, sister, or brother. Do you find yourself being drawn to explore a more meaningful way of life? If so, that could be God calling you to serve the Church.
Of course, we usually do not respond to God's little nudges immediately. The process often takes time, patience, and prayer. If you haven't developed a consistent prayer life, I encourage you to do so. It is through your prayer that you will be able to understand God's call and have the courage to follow. I also recommend that you share your discernment process with someone (a priest, sister, brother, or spiritual director would be great). God often speaks through other people. They may be able to shed some light on your discernment. As the vocations director, know that I am always available to help you explore your vocation. Contact me anytime to set up an appointment that is convenient for you.
Vocations Anonymous Test
Simply check all statements that apply to you.
If you checked three or more of the statements above, then you may have a vocation to the priesthood or religious life! Contact me if you would like to talk more about where God is leading you.
Seminary Formation
Once you have decided to take the next step in seeking the priesthood, you will enter a seminary to begin your formation. It is key to remember that the seminary is a place of continued discernment. You will "try on" certain aspects of a priest's lifestyle and see if they fit you, but you are not bound to the priesthood when you enter through the seminary doors. Here are just a few seminaries that we use.
College
Theology
Visiting a Seminary
No one can deny the benefits of visiting a seminary as part of your discernment for the priesthood. After all, you will spend 4 to 5 years studying in the seminary as the staff and faculty help you discern God's call in your life. Most seminaries offer weekend retreats for those considering a call to the priesthood. Here are a few dates that I have found.
If priesthood may be part of your future, I encourage you to contact one of these two seminaries and make a reservation for the next available retreat for prospective seminarians.
Other Links
Dinners with the Archbishop
At different points, we have a dinner with the archbishop to promote priestly and religious vocations. After the dinner, a seminarian, a novice, and the archbishop will share their stories of their journey with God. If you would like to learn a bit more about the priesthood and religious life in one night, this is a great way to do it. There is no cost for the evening! Call or email me for more information or to make your reservation.
Eucharistic Adoration
Prayer is key if you are to understand where God is calling you! We encourage everyone to take advantage of the Eucharistic Adoration chapels around the archdiocese.